by princess toadie

Question by cougar2342: should i be obligated to buy another baby shower gift for this person?
my sister in law is having a baby in a few months. she has already had 2 showers that were fairly good in size, and is about to have 2 if not 3(or 4- they keep being planned it seems) more of the same size. i made her a good sized diaper cake, complete w/ items inside of it, the whole nine yards. my new husband and i are currently out of work and having to live w/ his parents. for our wedding a little over a month ago, she fought me on her dress until my mil ordered the semi formal maternity dress i found for her as her bm dress "didnt fit" 2 weeks before the wedding, and argued w/ me about every detail of my wedding(and she wasnt maid of honor either-i didnt have one). she also royally screwed me on a lot of things tied in w/ the wedding- she didnt send out the bridal shower invitations or the hen night invitations until less than a week before the event, and wouldnt let anyone else help her.
that aside, my mil and fil act like she is the first person in the course of human events to be pregnant(when i was pregnant w/ both of my children, they pretty much ignored me. w/ my son, my mil called me cross country to cuss me out for no reason, and w/ my daughter i was forced to ride everywhere in 120 degree heat w/ in a car w/ no ac; i also had SIGNIFICANT complications- w/ my daughter i was borderline gestational diabetic, had preterm labor, bleeding,etc. and w/ my son i had too much fluid(which carries a good risk of cord prolapse, which can be fatal), severe preterm labor(i was having painful contractions for 2 1/2 months prior to having to be induced a week early b/c my son was so big that my body couldnt physically handle him anymore), severe swelling in my left leg, and was virtually put on bed rest for the last month almost of my pregnancy. my sil has had no complications other than a tiny spot of bleeding once. her baby is normal sized. i am not by any means wishing these complications on her or that i am jealous, i just dont understand how the same person can be so hyperfocused on one dil's pregnancy and completely ignore the other one's pregnancies both times.
mil tonight said to me that i needed to buy another gift for yet another shower for sil. i have been invited to one this friday and another one for sil after that, along w/ there being talk of yet another one. i told mil both i and my husband are broke(b/c i am- we are both trying to find jobs w/ no sucess)and couldnt afford to buy another gift for sil(not to be selfish, but our son needs food and diapers too). sil and bil are also better off than us at the moment(they have a house, 2 cars, and both have great jobs w/ great insurance and benefits). is it rude of them to keep requiring us to get them gifts for everyone of these showers?
the week of my wedding i was yelled at by my fil who acted as if my sil was the victim in everything- he even said that my other bm's did nothing and i shouldnt have thanked them at all, and i should only have thanked sil b/c "she did all the work"- which wasnt even true in the least.
i also bought them an exersaucer back in may.
for my sons baby shower, she made a diaper cake(nothing but diapers) and got a set of 2 sleep sacks. for my daughter's she didnt get anything.

Best answer:

Answer by frenchy<3
You did enough one gift is more than enough since your not working. If she is not understanding she has some issues to deal with.

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by ex.libris

Today becoming the mother is great fun. Everything has become so easy for mother’s that how those nine months passes do not even come to notice. Each and every moment is so enjoyable that fright of that extreme pain completely flee from mind. Fear of loosing femininity that usually concerns pregnant women is also ironed out by trendy clothing.

Pregnancy is the most beautiful part of women’s life as it completes her. A woman looks more beautiful during this period. It is an occasion to be celebrated and as always said dress is the main eye catching part of every occasion thus this event can also be best exemplified with beautiful trendy maternity clothes. Dress is the representation of how a happy woman is with her pregnancy and how much it matters to her.

For the mother-to-be there are many ample options in clothing and so voguish that takes them along with the latest fads. Pregnancy period is very hectic. Everything gets changed, even apparels. Wearing those dull dresses makes surrounding drearier. This period tests the patience of even the best. But like other things fashion world also very understands. That’s why it has come up with many new dresses for upcoming mothers in various styles in order to let them know that they are still very much gorgeous.

Joy of welcoming that special member increases more if one feels good about them. Fun maternity clothing’s are very helpful in it. ‘Angel like feel gives feeling that as if you are going to give birth to your princess charm’. There are lots of varieties in stores today of maternity clothing. Knee-length gowns, full length dresses, strapless dresses, empire waist dresses, halter dresses, thin straps dresses, plunging neckline dresses, off shoulder dresses etc. will bring smile on pregnant mother faces. These fabulous options are of much use but still missing on few important tips that gives best look. Shopping requires few tips and all mothers should be aware about them.

Purchase stretchable dresses, as they can expand according to the size of belly.

Outfit should be till knee-length or below it. Do not go for short dresses as growing belly ultimately pull front hems up.

Trial is must before purchase of the dress. It is for knowing how much comfortable dress is in the body.

Pregnant mothers are free to get into any look they aspire for like trendy, modern, simple or sexy. Gone are the days when they have to be in those boring dresses keeping only one thing in mind i.e. comfort. Extremely pleasing maternity clothing has completely taken worries of women regarding looks as compared to that of the past. They are highly in demand.

Earlier pregnancy used to be looked upon as period when women have to keep her femininity and beauty aside for nine months. Most women think of pregnancy clothes as shapeless loose clothing’s. But today scenario is entirely opposite. Today’s dresses have proved everything wrong. These fabulous maternity dresses give fabulous looks for the next nine months. Enjoy those new curves and stay stylish during pregnancy with incredible maternity dresses.

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Question by cougar2342: should i be obligated to buy another baby shower gift for this person?
my sister in law is having a baby in a few months. she has already had 2 showers that were fairly good in size, and is about to have 2 if not 3(or 4- they keep being planned it seems) more of the same size. i made her a good sized diaper cake, complete w/ items inside of it, the whole nine yards. my new husband and i are currently out of work and having to live w/ his parents. for our wedding a little over a month ago, she fought me on her dress until my mil ordered the semi formal maternity dress i found for her as her bm dress "didnt fit" 2 weeks before the wedding, and argued w/ me about every detail of my wedding(and she wasnt maid of honor either-i didnt have one). she also royally screwed me on a lot of things tied in w/ the wedding- she didnt send out the bridal shower invitations or the hen night invitations until less than a week before the event, and wouldnt let anyone else help her.
that aside, my mil and fil act like she is the first person in the course of human events to be pregnant(when i was pregnant w/ both of my children, they pretty much ignored me. w/ my son, my mil called me cross country to cuss me out for no reason, and w/ my daughter i was forced to ride everywhere in 120 degree heat w/ in a car w/ no ac; i also had SIGNIFICANT complications- w/ my daughter i was borderline gestational diabetic, had preterm labor, bleeding,etc. and w/ my son i had too much fluid(which carries a good risk of cord prolapse, which can be fatal), severe preterm labor(i was having painful contractions for 2 1/2 months prior to having to be induced a week early b/c my son was so big that my body couldnt physically handle him anymore), severe swelling in my left leg, and was virtually put on bed rest for the last month almost of my pregnancy. my sil has had no complications other than a tiny spot of bleeding once. her baby is normal sized. i am not by any means wishing these complications on her or that i am jealous, i just dont understand how the same person can be so hyperfocused on one dil's pregnancy and completely ignore the other one's pregnancies both times.
mil tonight said to me that i needed to buy another gift for yet another shower for sil. i have been invited to one this friday and another one for sil after that, along w/ there being talk of yet another one. i told mil both i and my husband are broke(b/c i am- we are both trying to find jobs w/ no sucess)and couldnt afford to buy another gift for sil(not to be selfish, but our son needs food and diapers too). sil and bil are also better off than us at the moment(they have a house, 2 cars, and both have great jobs w/ great insurance and benefits). is it rude of them to keep requiring us to get them gifts for everyone of these showers?
the week of my wedding i was yelled at by my fil who acted as if my sil was the victim in everything- he even said that my other bm's did nothing and i shouldnt have thanked them at all, and i should only have thanked sil b/c "she did all the work"- which wasnt even true in the least.
i also bought them an exersaucer back in may.
for my sons baby shower, she made a diaper cake(nothing but diapers) and got a set of 2 sleep sacks. for my daughter's she didnt get anything.

Best answer:

Answer by frenchy<3
You did enough one gift is more than enough since your not working. If she is not understanding she has some issues to deal with.

What do you think? Answer below!

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by Glamhag

Where to shop is not at all a question now-a-days, with the number of stores catering to the needs of expecting mothers, increasing day-by-day.  Pregnancy is the fulfillment of a women's life and all maternity dress shop owners are aware of the blissful moments the mothers-to-be are going through.  Keeping that in mind they have dresses made for all occasions; wedding dresses, prom dresses, casual wears, party wear, swimming dress, brides maid dress etc. 

So, it will not be difficult to find a shop to buy formal maternity dresses.  The thing, to take care of, is the dress itself.  Though your basic body structure will not change with pregnancy, some parts related to pregnancy, especially the stomach, chest, hips etc. will develop and expand.  So, you must select dresses that fit your gradually developing body, without making you look oversized or sloppy.

The days of the past, when we wore loose garments to hide the bulging stomach during pregnancy are gone; hot, stylish maternity dresses are the ‘in thing' now.  Although you get maternity leave during pregnancy, it is only for the last 3 months of pregnancy and first 3 months of post pregnancy.  So for working women formal maternity dresses are a must.   Almost all the maternity dress shops have a section for formal wears. 

Formal or informal, the dresses you buy during maternity period should be made up of soft fabrics that stretch so that you won't feel uncomfortable when your body develops.  Elegant formal skirt that can be adjusted at the waist with a formal shirt – a little loose at the middle - will do well for formal wear.  Pants with belly bands or stretch panels will go fine with white oxford shirt.  Make your inner wears are also comfortable.  Buy only sizes that fit for two months or less. 

Now, modern maternity suits are also available to keep your shape.  Some women take pride in showing off their stomach, more so, if it is her first baby.  Those who don't like others to see the baby bulge, use scarves, shawls of dark colors to distract attention from the stomach.  If it is winter use loose sweater to cover bump.  Whatever dress you wear, the proof that your womanhood is fulfilled, is the most blissful and beautiful moment.

The practical and fashionable Fertile Mind®6WayDress ™ is the most veratile maternity dress for any occasion, alternating quickly and easily between more than 6 different styles (we have counted 12 so far...) Have fun dressing up with a simply stunning maternity dress which will keep you looking fabulous throughout you're pregnancy, and beyond... Available in Small, Medium, Large and Extra Large. All Fertile Mind® products are designed to grow with your bump, so there is no need to go for a larger size.
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• Flattering empire waist and adjustable tie to cinch in front or back

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by Tricia Wang 王圣捷

Question by cougar2342: should i be obligated to buy another baby shower gift for this person?
my sister in law is having a baby in a few months. she has already had 2 showers that were fairly good in size, and is about to have 2 if not 3(or 4- they keep being planned it seems) more of the same size. i made her a good sized diaper cake, complete w/ items inside of it, the whole nine yards. my new husband and i are currently out of work and having to live w/ his parents. for our wedding a little over a month ago, she fought me on her dress until my mil ordered the semi formal maternity dress i found for her as her bm dress "didnt fit" 2 weeks before the wedding, and argued w/ me about every detail of my wedding(and she wasnt maid of honor either-i didnt have one). she also royally screwed me on a lot of things tied in w/ the wedding- she didnt send out the bridal shower invitations or the hen night invitations until less than a week before the event, and wouldnt let anyone else help her.
that aside, my mil and fil act like she is the first person in the course of human events to be pregnant(when i was pregnant w/ both of my children, they pretty much ignored me. w/ my son, my mil called me cross country to cuss me out for no reason, and w/ my daughter i was forced to ride everywhere in 120 degree heat w/ in a car w/ no ac; i also had SIGNIFICANT complications- w/ my daughter i was borderline gestational diabetic, had preterm labor, bleeding,etc. and w/ my son i had too much fluid(which carries a good risk of cord prolapse, which can be fatal), severe preterm labor(i was having painful contractions for 2 1/2 months prior to having to be induced a week early b/c my son was so big that my body couldnt physically handle him anymore), severe swelling in my left leg, and was virtually put on bedrest for the last month almost of my pregnancy. my sil has had no complications other than a tiny spot of bleeding once. her baby is normal sized. i am not by any means wishing these complications on her or that i am jealous, i just dont understand how the same person can be so hyperfocused on one dil's pregnancy and completely ignore the other one's pregnancies both times.
mil tonight said to me that i needed to buy another gift for yet another shower for sil. i have been invited to one this friday and another one for sil after that, along w/ there being talk of yet another one. i told mil both i and my husband are broke(b/c i am- we are both trying to find jobs w/ no sucess)and couldnt afford to buy another gift for sil(not to be selfish, but our son needs food and diapers too). sil and bil are also better off than us at the moment(they have a house, 2 cars, and both have great jobs w/ great insurance and benefits). is it rude of them to keep requiring us to get them gifts for everyone of these showers?

Best answer:

Answer by Puppy Sandwich
Hell no.

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by princess toadie

Article by Joanne Garrett

A maternity dress has to be a must-buy for every pregnant woman. Even if dresses are something you would normally only wear for special occasions, you will soon love the versatility and the comfort of a maternity dress - not to mention the style!

It's one of those facts of life that as soon as you announce that you're having a baby, then the invites for weddings, parties and formal dinners seem to flood in! On these occasions you'd usually be wearing a new dress, but it seems ridiculous to buy a dress that you will only wear during the next nine months.

Well, the key here is to buy a dress you love, but one that is versatile enough to wear at lots of different events. Perhaps a flexible style which can be altered to look differently, like the amazing "six way dress", or one that can be dressed up or down with clever maternity accessories.

In terms of style and fashion, the familiar "smock dress" is not at all in maternity fashion! At the moment, pregnant women have the pick of fabulous styles - halter-necks, bold fabrics and bright colours are all commonplace. You can choose a black dress if you wish, but these days, many women choose to flaunt their bumps in scarlets, fuchsias and bold patterns.

Some pregnant women actually find that dresses are more comfortable to wear when they're expecting than tops and trousers too. This is because maternity dresses are cut for comfort and without an uncomfortable waistband to dig in.

But the best thing about a maternity dress has to be the flexibility. Nobody thinks a pregnant woman is overdressed if she's wearing a maternity dress, so you can wear one everyday without raising eyebrows, A dress with a little jacket is perfect for work. Going out? Then experiment with different coloured wraps or pashminas. For casual daywear, just throw on a coordinating cardigan and you're good to go!

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by Chris Fritz

Question by Bellatrix: dream and reality ...joke?
Bill comes home late at night drunk as a man can be, he slowly crawls into bed next to his wife Mary trying not to wake her up. Soon he wakes up opens and sees a weird looking man standing by the bed wearing a long white dress. "Who are you?" - Bill asks.
"I am St. Peter!"
"Does that mean I am dead?"
"Yes!"
"But, I have so much to live for, I haven't said goodbye to my family...you must send me back at once."
"You can be reincarnated, but there's a catch. I can send you back but only as a dog or as a chicken."
"Ok, then. I choose chicken since there is a farm right next to our house."
St. Peter claps his hands and a bright light appears and Bill finds himself covered in feathers in the middle of a backyard. The cock comes to him and asks Bill: " So, you are new around here, are you enjoying yourself?"
"Yes, it's great, but I have a weird feeling in my stomach like I am about to explode."
"Ahh that's nothing. Don't tell me you never laid an egg? If not, just relax and let the process go its course."
Bill relaxes and after a couple of seconds an egg flies out from his bottom. Bill gets overwhelmed with joy feeling maternity for the first time. When he laid the second egg he had a flow of emotions and though of this reincarnation as a chicken as the best thing that has happened to him...EVER!!! He just wanted to lay more and more eggs..Soon after he felt the third egg coming out he gets a blow on his neck and hears his wife shouting:
"Wake up, you stupid bastard, you are taking a crap in bed!"

Best answer:

Answer by andrews mommy
Lol good one!!!!

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